We all need growth in our relationships. Healthy Relationships shouldn't be stagnant they need growth and some positive changes from time to time. Boyfriend/Girlfriend titles shouldn't be for a very long time without an upgrade either to an engagement ring or a wedding ring.
The ring gives stability and this is an aspect one should take seriously. It also shows commitment to each other.
YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON EXCEPT SEX. The level of intimacy needed to sustain a growing relationship doesn't just end under the sheets.
COHABITATION. ( You live together ).
Living together as a couple isn't encouraging. When you cohabit, the urge to upgrade is lacking. Men are more likely not to move a relationship forward when they're already getting it all.
NONE OF HIS FRIENDS ARE MARRIED.
Our environment influences our lifestyle either positive or negative. Who we surround ourselves with often detect our behavior. If their friends aren't in serious relationships, they wouldn't be motivated to upgrade.
YOU BOTH ACT SINGLE.
Eventhough you're in a relationship, you still flirt comfortable with the opposite sex even in his/her presence. Also , you make use of me, mine, you, instead of us, and ours.
YOU AVOID FIGHTS.
Fighting is essential and healthy in any relationship. If you're not fighting, then you're not loving.
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