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5 WAYS TO TELL IF YOU ARE IN A MANIPULATIVE RELATIONSHIP.

Relations aren't always blossomed. Sometimes you doubt if your partner is that sweet man/woman you met some time ago, but when it's in a manipulative form it's a call for concern. We shouldn't have it a habit of taking advantage of others because they LOVE and CARE about us.
These are some ways to know if you are in a manipulative relationship.

1) CONFRONTATION:
In a relationship, it's normal to confront your partner on the things you aren't clear about. With this, a manipulative partner will want to manipulate your beliefs and finally you will find out he/she hasn't given the answers to the questions you aren't clear about. I doubt how a relationship will move forward if your partner acts all smart each time you confront them.#bullies
TRUST me you act like this, you are simply emptying the trust basket your partner has for you.

2) THEY DON'T ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS DIRECTLY:
Instead of confronting their mistakes, they divert your attention to something else, usually with an emotional story that you would feel bad and interrupted. By so doing, you will comply with their subject change and automatically forget the subject of the conversation at the first place...

3) WHEN HE/SHE HURTS YOU, YOU END UP APOLOGISING:
Feeling like your feelings can't be trusted to the point that you apologise for them is a sign you are being gaslighted

4) THEY ALWAYS ACT ILL:
Manipulative persons are always like..........
Ohhh am having a headache...ooohhh  I have a pain on my stomach...etc just to make sure you aren't happy yourself especially when they know you LOVE and CARE.

5)CONFLICTS NEVER FEEL  RESOLVED:
Conflicts of days, weeks or months, still bother you even though you have discussed them with your partner. Possibilities they manipulated you in believing the discussion was over before it was.

REMEMBER LOVE IS RESPECT..
NOT A MIND GAME...

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